Read more about the article Don’t Forget That We Said to Never Forget
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Don’t Forget That We Said to Never Forget

Today is 24 years since 9/11. 24 fucking years. No one I saw today even mentioned it. Nothing against them, I didn't mention it either. Over the many years, this…

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Read more about the article ‘Tis Better To Have Lived Long and Be Wrinkly
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‘Tis Better To Have Lived Long and Be Wrinkly

So last week I got my face lasered off.   Okay, it wasn’t that dramatic.  I just had some spots removed.  Those dreaded sun freckles that emerge in your 40s and…

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Read more about the article So SAD (Such a Fitting Acronym for Seasonal Affect Disorder)
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So SAD (Such a Fitting Acronym for Seasonal Affect Disorder)

I'm currently writing this post as I sit at a restaurant bar waiting for to-go food on a snowy Thursday night in January.  The post-holiday blues got me down.  Let's…

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Read more about the article What Is Success?
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What Is Success?

Ever have one of those days, weeks or months even where you just don’t feel like a person, at least a worthwhile person?  Those days where you feel existentially unaccomplished…

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Read more about the article The Last Goodbye
Kiss by the Hotel de Ville Paris 1950 - Robert Doisneau (I don't know if they're saying goodbye here but who cares, this pic is awesome)

The Last Goodbye

I came across this meme the other day:   Photo from Cheezburger.com Yeah, I had to stop for a second too.  Wow.  You never know when anything you do with…

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Read more about the article What Is The Story Arc of Your Life?
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What Is The Story Arc of Your Life?

So I was listening to Preston & Steve on my way into work the other morning (long running awesome morning radio show for those not in the Philly know) and…

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Read more about the article The Universe Gets an A in English–How It Has Epically Foreshadowed My Life
A shadow of myself from 2009. Who knew I'd ever use this picture

The Universe Gets an A in English–How It Has Epically Foreshadowed My Life

Take a trip back with me to 9th grade English.  I know right, nobody wants to go there.  I remember being assigned an essay where I had to cite examples…

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Read more about the article Why Is Everyone So Trigger Happy?
Roy Rogers and his horse, Trigger (Photo: Pinterest, https://www.pinterest.com/pin/385761524330875570/)

Why Is Everyone So Trigger Happy?

It’s 10:36 p.m. on a Wednesday and I just got home from watching the Phillies lose to the Mets tonight and their season is now over.  They suck balls. They…

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Read more about the article A Cry for the Sunflowers (Welcome to PTSD)
Sunflower field at Norristown Farm Park

A Cry for the Sunflowers (Welcome to PTSD)

I was watching this show the other day where a man was in a military rehab center recovering from a stroke.  And as no show is complete without the obligatory…

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Read more about the article Stop and Smell the Bagels
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Stop and Smell the Bagels

Ever have one of those days where you feel like the Universe is smiling down on you?  For some of us that feels like a rare occurrence.  Today is one…

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Read more about the article Broken People Save Broken People
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Broken People Save Broken People

I was watching this movie with Jake Gylenhall called The Guilty and a character in the movie said this quote, “broken people save broken people.”  It’s so fucking true that…

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Valentine’s Day Can Suck It

It’s not actually Valentine's Day yet, today is February 13th, Galentine's Day, a day to hang out with your gals, pals, friends, hell even your pets.  Pets are friends people. …

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Read more about the article Trauma is a Blessing
Beautiful beach sunrise with my BFF - Maine, 2020

Trauma is a Blessing

(This Post Brought to You by the Letter B) Crazy thought right?  How in the world could trauma be good?  Who would ever think that?   I do.  I was…

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Read more about the article There Are Two Kinds of People in This World
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There Are Two Kinds of People in This World

I've realized basic humanity comes down to two types of people - those who help the cashier bag their groceries and those who just stand there and watch. I was…

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Read more about the article Why Does Doing the Right Thing Always Seem to Get You Nowhere?
Even the middle of nowhere can be beautiful (Colorado, October 2023)

Why Does Doing the Right Thing Always Seem to Get You Nowhere?

Everybody cheats.  I’m not talking Watergate or even Deflategate proportions here, I’m talking about the little fudging we all seem to do from time to time.  Things such as not…

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Read more about the article The Perks of Being a Pinecone
View with pine trees on the hike up to Lake Ptarmigan, Colorado

The Perks of Being a Pinecone

So there’s this tree called the Lodgepole pine, its pinecones need heat from a wildfire to melt its resin so the seeds can be released to make more pine trees. …

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Read more about the article At What Price Freedom?
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At What Price Freedom?

This saying just popped into my head tonight.  How fitting as today is a giant symbol of freedom, July 4th.  I think some historical guy said "at what price freedom?" …

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Read more about the article It Would Be Sadder if It Wasn’t Sad
yeah, I've used this pic before, but when I think of sad things, I think of the squonk

It Would Be Sadder if It Wasn’t Sad

So tonight I went with a friend to a birthday party for a woman who worked at my friend’s old job, a hospice center.  Apparently I met the birthday girl…

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Read more about the article It’s Complicated
Rubik's cube = complicated (Photo by 7AV 7AV on Unsplash)

It’s Complicated

No, I’m not talking about a Facebook relationship status (though that would accurately describe pretty much all the romantic relationships I’ve had in my life). I’m talking about the term…

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What if You Died at 45?

Watching Bohemian Rhapsody tonight, again. It's a movie about the band Queen for those living under a rock.  The lead singer, Freddy Mercury, died in 1991 at 45 years old. …

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Read more about the article Taking the L – The Game of Letting Go
Some things are hard to let go of

Taking the L – The Game of Letting Go

We say this at work on slow days with no customers - just take the L and chalk this day up to a loss.  No customers = no tips =…

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Read more about the article A Lesson in Patience
My partner-in-crime patiently fishing

A Lesson in Patience

I hate that Guns N Roses pops into my head when I think of the word patience. The word whiny also comes to mind right now.  I need patience to…

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Read more about the article FMYMO – Fear Makes You Miss Out
Fear didn't make me miss out from sleeping under the stars.

FMYMO – Fear Makes You Miss Out

No, I’m not drunk, yet.  I wrote that correctly.  It isn’t FOMO - Fear Of Missing Out.  It’s FMYMO - Fear Makes You Miss Out.  Don’t let fear rule your…

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Float in Your Boat

Not sure what to write about.  Hopeless Tomatoes has risen to one of my all time favorite things I’ve ever written so kinda hard to top that.


I could write about the Ester Hicks quotes I’ve been reading lately about vibrations and energy.  Yeah, deep, existential shit but I’m deep and existential I guess.  I had a good conversation with a co-worker about that kinda stuff on Sunday.  I have nothing else at the moment so maybe I should expand on that.  

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Hopeless Tomatoes

It’s recently been brought to my attention that I'm a hopeless romantic.  Shocking right?  Why do they call it hopeless? Less hope? Or even lesser than less, none?  No hope…

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Read more about the article House of Squonk
yeah, I've used this pic before, but when I think of sad things, I think of the squonk

House of Squonk

The other day my house was crying.  Tears everywhere.  Well, water was pouring out of my ceiling and streaming down the walls from a hole in my roof, but I…

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Read more about the article Sit Around the Fire
Moab, UT - 2019

Sit Around the Fire

In follow up to Tuna Fish and Doritos, I heard this song in yoga class the other day.  So fitting: “Sit Around the Fire” by Jon Hopkins Beyond all polarities…

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Tuna Fish and Doritos

I have no idea what this piece is about.  I was just free writing earlier and the thought that I like Doritos on a tuna fish sandwich popped in my…

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Read more about the article The Lighthouse
Didn't know I'd be writing this piece when I took this picture in October 2020. Sunrise at Bass Harbor Head Lighthouse, Acadia National Park, Maine

The Lighthouse

“I’m like a fucking lighthouse keeper.  Out here on my own...keeping this flame burning.  Of course, when anyone sees a lighthouse, they steer clear, don’t they?”     I am a…

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Pay It Backward

So I was driving home from work tonight just thinking how thankful I am to have such a great job that I do indeed love.  How many people can say…

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Read more about the article Wawa – Life Lessons from a Convenience Store
My local oasis (Eh a little blurry)

Wawa – Life Lessons from a Convenience Store

Us East Coast peeps know.  Wawa.  It’s practically a religion.  It’s the Garden of Eden of convenience stores.  7-Eleven - nah.  Starbucks - too intimidating.  What the hell does venti…

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Read more about the article The Suffering – Perspectives from a Suicide Survivor
Candle lighting ceremony I was graciously invited to by my friend who worked at this amazing place at the time to honor our loved one who left The Suffering. A giant thank you to my friend for including me.

The Suffering – Perspectives from a Suicide Survivor

We’re all in it, the Suffering.  That’s what I’ve named this thing called the human experience.  Sounds awful right?  It’s not.  The Suffering is a gift, a wonderful gift. And…

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